Couple Therapy – Relationship Tips

Recovery from an Affair

Recovery from an Affair

It’s no surprise that affairs are a common reason why people come to couple therapy. In this article, I want to make some observations about the potential meanings of affairs, and rather than necessarily signalling the end of a relationship, how they can in many...

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The Experience of Men in Therapy

The Experience of Men in Therapy

As one of a relatively small number of male couple therapists practicing in the UK, I am particularly interested in how men feel about coming to therapy, be it couple or individual. It’s probably fair to say that the odds are stacked against men in therapy. ...

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Finding a new reason to be together

Finding a new reason to be together

After years together, many couples find the 'couple fit' - the thing that makes the relationship work for both partners - gets lost along the way.  Sometimes what's needed is a new reason to be together.  Couple therapy can help find this.   Before we...

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What is this thing called love?

What is this thing called love?

On (Saint) Valentine’s day, our thoughts turn to love. As a couple therapist I often work with couples to explore how they can find love again after years of being together. It’s often helpful for couples to think of the things that attracted them in the first place....

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