Thoughts and Advice
Empathy versus Decency – How to Show You Care
Empathy starts from a very different place from decency. Decency is about offering the ‘right’ thing. It tends to be practical and solutions focused. Empathy however is about understanding your partner’s experience and feelings, and responding to that in a much more personalised way. Decency is about offering things that apparently ‘anyone’ would want and therefore might be obvious to the partner, while empathy needs to be explored in a much softer way.
Considering Couples Therapy? Here’s How to Get Started
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Summer Holiday – A Chance to Reconnect, or Problems Laid Bare?
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
What Makes a Marriage – What’s your shared foundation?
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Couples Therapy – Tips for the first few sessions
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Modern Masculinity – Experiences of Men in Relationships
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Making Internet Dating Work For You – A Relationship Therapist’s View
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Thinking about couples therapy? How to get started, and what to expect
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Breaking the Doom Loop of Blame – the Vulnerability Cycle
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
Recovery From An Affair – When It Might Not Mean The End
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.