Couple Therapy – Relationship Tips
Facing Separation – Thoughts on Co-Parenting
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
When A Relationship Comes to an End – How Joint Counselling Can Help
As a couples therapist based in Esher, while most clients want to explore how to stay together, some have already decided, or at least one partner has decided, that they want to break up. In this piece, I am focusing on those who come to me for divorce and separation counselling.
A New Consulting Room in Esher for Individual and Couples Therapy
I have opened a new bespoke consulting room, with availability most days and some evenings, though with a strict limit on the total number of clients.
The Problem of Being too ‘Nice’ in Couple Retationships
I’ve been recently struck by how many of my couple clients are finding feelings of needing each other, or one needing the other more, a very tricky part of their lives.
“I want you, but I don’t need you” – feelings of dependency in relationships
I’ve been recently struck by how many of my couple clients are finding feelings of needing each other, or one needing the other more, a very tricky part of their lives.
Rediscovering Love: How Couples can Reconnect
Valentine’s Day naturally brings thoughts of love to the forefront. As a couples therapist, I often work with partners who are looking to rekindle their connection after years together. One helpful approach in the early stages of couples therapy is for couples to...
Getting Started in Couples Therapy
In this piece, I would like to talk about the practical aspects of getting started with couples therapy, from the initial thoughts you may have to the first few sessions. It may come as no surprise the reader of this piece that this time of year is typically the...
“Will we get ‘homework’?” How to handle the gaps between therapy sessions
As a couples therapist, I am often asked, especially in the first couple of sessions, two questions by new clients. Firstly, whether I set homework as part of the therapy. Secondly, how clients should manage their communication difficulties in between sessions. ...
Strengthening Couples and Family Relationships During Christmas
As a couples therapist, I often hear clients express both excitement and anxiety about the Christmas season. While many hope for a joyous, harmonious holiday, the reality can sometimes fall short, leading to disappointment and strain. Understanding common relationship...
Children Moving Out: What this might mean for your Relationship
Children going to university is a bittersweet experience for many couples. While this key rite of passage is often celebrated – a marker of being a successful parental couple, it can also mean the loss of a parent’s major focus in life – the day-to-day role of school...